Daycare has proven to be one of the toughest hurdles so far in motherhood. I love the analogy for parenthood that our kids are our hearts walking around outside of our bodies. That about sums it up. I didn’t know how hard it was going to be to trust someone with my little heart. There are so many things to consider, research, and question when it comes to finding childcare and a daycare provider. Often, the availability of good daycare is so hard to find because of age, circumstances, or if they are full. The younger the child is the harder it seems to be. I have found daycares that weren’t a great fit for us as a family, and I have found daycares that put my mind at ease. This post is to help a mama’s mind during drop-off. Whatever your reason for needing and choosing a daycare, those reasons matter. Grab a notebook and pen and get ready to circle one of the following 25+ affirmations that stick out to you. If you need to, put it on a sticky note on your rearview mirror or take a glance at it before you start your engine.
25+ Affirmations for Mamas Dealing with Daycare
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I have an identity outside of being a mama.
I trust my mama gut.
I thoroughly researched our daycare provider and feel comfortable.
They are safe.
I am allowed to care about earning money.
I need time alone to recharge.
I am allowed to enjoy time away from family and family-related activities.
I can work even if it doesn’t cover daycare bills.
I have goals, dreams, and ambitions.
I am rejuvenating my energy to spend time with them later on today.
I know motherhood looks different for everyone.
I am allowed to not be “on” 100% of the time.
I am allowed to take care of my own needs.
My feelings are okay.
I can miss my kids and still need time away from them.
I am a good mama.
I will show my kids what self-care looks like for a person.
I will show my kids how to be happy.
I will show my kids how to be present in the here and now.
I can cry after dropoff. Crying is a sign of strength and compassion.
I don’t owe anyone an explanation of how I feel about daycare.
I am creating my own village to help me with motherhood.
I know this is hard for all mamas.
I can go get them early or see them if I am unsure.
I will take this one day at a time.
Writing Mindset Reflection: What affirmations did you circle or write down? What positive words helped you with the transition to daycare or school?